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We Are Alone


There’s a scene in Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows the place Harry, Ron, and Hermione all of the sudden disapparate (i.e. teleport) from London to a secure home (12 Grimmald Place) as a way to escape the Demise Eaters despatched to kill them. Upon coming into the residence, a ghostly Mad-Eye Moody (who’s useless) rushes towards them, a type of safety measure he put in place earlier than his dying to guard the home. That is an unwelcome and scary shock, so Hermione performs a spell (Revelio) to find out if there are every other horrifying surprises (or individuals) in the home. Nothing seems. The three youngsters stand within the entrance corridor, which appears darkish and menacing slightly than the secure place it’s meant to be; the lengthy dusty corridor (and the unknown future) stretches in entrance of them. Hermione says, “We’re alone.” Nobody is there to assist them. They’re on their very own, in an unsure world.


That scene has been enjoying time and again in my thoughts these previous few weeks, as Tom and I first traveled to Georgia to put in our youngest, Rin, of their freshman yr at Savannah Faculty of Artwork and Design, after which once more upon coming house, the place we watched our eldest, Adam, pack up the automotive and drive off to start his sophomore yr at Cal Poly in San Luis Obispo.


Since then, Tom and I’ve had hassle concentrating on work and college – effectively, on life, mainly. Positive, we’re a bit unhappy (we miss them each rather a lot), however we’re additionally pleased, as we’ve develop into (as my brother-in-law Andy assures me) “Profitable Grownup Launch Facilitators.” We’re fearful, and we’re proud, and we’re hopeful. We’re additionally curious to find who we’re as a pair, after twenty years of sharing our house with youngsters. In brief, we’re feeling all the things .


Being of a sure age, plenty of our buddies are going by way of the identical adjustments, and it’s been fascinating to listen to the assorted reactions. Some have reported feeling completely liberated and free; others write of evenings spent crying on their little one’s empty mattress. We’re someplace within the center – not delighted, however not bereft. We’re, fairly merely, alone. It’s going to take a while for us to regulate to those new circumstances.



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